
When death comes it is no stranger. It is always a shock, but never a surprise. For death patiently stalks us from the shadows that fringe our existence. It slinks through the network of our thoughts leaving wordless reminders of its reality. Occasionally, we are brushed by its veil as it passes by to claim a person we know. We shrink back, swallowing hard as it stirs the air.
For death seems ominous, capricious, and unpredictable; touching some, while appearing to leave us alone. But if we pretend it will go away by ignoring it with distractions or busywork, we are whistling in the dark. Because at the end of the night, when we awaken to the day, we know that death still waits. We have not escaped its hand; we have simply been passed over for the present.
Each ache and pain, every risk or accident is a reminder of our fleeting mortality. And we wonder when death will rise up out of our waking dream to call our name. For death is more certain than life and more sure than salvation. Death has call for every creature who has ever been, is living now or ever will live.
All die . . . except one.
And so, we go on about our daily lives waiting for an hour unknown with a tinge of apprehension and a trembling heart that says, “it is not a matter of
if, but
when.”
Yet, the real issue is not if death will appear, but how will we face it. This is the act of free will that truly makes us human and places us above all other living creatures. For in all of creation we alone are allowed to decide how we will face death’s sting. We alone are given the dignity of choosing the attitude in which death will claim us.
And so we must decide how we will live until the moment of our death. Will we recklessly ignor or defy death? Will we cower in denial and dread? Or, will we freely give our lives by being engaged in selfless service to others?
Jesus Christ, the very soul of God says,
“No greater love has a man, than to lay down his life for his friends.” In these words we learn the divine standard for meeting death. In them we find the highest form of human expression and the supreme demonstration of individual character, for there is nothing more noble or virtuous than the expression of love found in a person who intentionally serves others. Especially when it involves special risk or sacrifice that might lead to their own death.
This is the kind of love that we observe in the men and women who have died serving us on foreign battlefields in the defense of our way of life. In these common men and women, we discover sons and daughters who left home and hearth, families and friends to follow their hearts in the belief that their single life could help to secure America’s future.
In these soldiers we find regular people who believed in helping the poor, protecting the innocent and defending the weak. It was in this service to humanity that they wanted to meet death. And in the end, they shook hands with death on their own terms, with the noble sacrifice found in their diligent service.
No, theirs was not a life taken, theirs was a life given. They were not tragic victims, they were intentional volunteers and thus heroes.
And in that way, they are forever our champions. For in meeting death on their terms and laying down their life for their country, they mirrored the love found in the pure heart of God who laid down his life for you and I.
In their burning light we are blessed to see a glimpse of the divine sacrifice and love that is the source of eternal salvation.
And so I give you the lives of these gallant American warriors as the mirrors of glory. Perhaps theirs was not as long or as full as some, but theirs was deeper and more profound than most. And in the heart of God, they have found their place.
As we reflect upon their passing, we will not remember their youthful sins, we will only recall their personal courage as they bled-out upon this earth in service to us. For true love is not a gush of emotion or weepy sentimentality. True love is discovered in obedience to the call of service and a humble devotion to the welfare of people.
These warriors have truly loved us. And we pray that every one has joined the great communion of warrior saints who now assemble for the first formation of a new morning. A day in which our Lord and King, Jesus Christ will triumph over all of death's history.
For we take confidence that the one who says
“No greater love has a man, than to lay down his life for his friends” has received each of them as his own.
As you read this, take a moment to decide how you will face death and in what way you will live until that moment. For you cannot choose the hour or manner, but you can choose the attitude and outlook that you will have when it comes.
And may you always find the life of Jesus Christ as your model for living and your strength and hope in his resurrection and victory over death.